中文摘要 婚恋观是人生观的重要组成部分和具体体现。随着社会的发展，当代大学生的婚恋观发生了巨大变化。大学生婚恋观的主流是积极健康的，但也存在着许多需要关注的问题。本文主要是针对大学生婚恋观中存在的问题，进行深入分析，积极探索婚恋观教育的内容、方法和途径，以帮助大学生树立正确的人生观和婚恋观。 三年来，笔者结合从事高校德育工作所取得的经验，采取问卷法和访谈法，对大学生婚恋观进行了全面深入的调研。问卷调查于2001年6月在东北某大学的4个年级、11个专业（文、理、工、艺术、林各2个专业；医学1个专业）中进行。此次共发放问卷1200份，收回有效问卷979份，其中男生占225人，女生占754人。问卷中精心设计的69个问题，涵盖了大学生对恋爱、择偶、性、婚姻、家庭、生育、婚姻法等问题的基本看法和态度。同时，笔者还对200名大学生进行个案访谈，深入了解他们的婚恋观念。此外，笔者还参阅了其他学者对于大学生婚恋观研究的成果，力求把大学生放在客观历史的和现实的背景下考察，以便更清晰地把握他们的婚恋观现状。 本文取得的成果有：一是揭示大学生的婚恋观现状，以实证研究为基础，捕捉到了大学生内心深处鲜为人知的情感困惑，力求数据的客观准确、反映的真实；二是在剖析大学生婚恋观问题成因的过程中，指出问题的根本原因在于大学生人生观的错误和婚恋观教育滞后；三是结合我国国情和大学生身心特点，对大学生婚恋观教育的内容、方法和途径进行分析研究，指出婚恋观教育首先是人生观教育，而且必须发挥学校教育的主渠道作用等。关键词：大学生，婚恋观，婚恋观教育

Abstract The view on marriage and love is an important component of the outlook of life. With the development of a society, great changes have taken place in contemporary college students’ views on marriage and love. Though the main trend of their views on marriage and love is healthy and positive, there are still some problems that should not be ignored. So the education and cultivation of college students on their views of marriage and love are of great importance. The paper is intended to make a research for the content, methods and ways of the education on college students’ ideas on marriage and love through deep analysis of the existing problems. In the last three years, the writer has done a comprehensive and deep investigation on college students’views of marriage and love, using methods of questionnaire and interviews. In June 2001 a questionnaire was conducted in a university in the northeast. It involved students in 11 specialties of 4 grades, majoring in arts, sciences, industry, fine arts, forestry and medicine. 979 questionnaires were qualified from 1,200 questionnaires, including 225 boy students and 754 girl students. In the questionnaire, 69 questions are presented covering love, spouse selection, sex, marriage, family, giving birth, and the law of marriage. Meanwhile, the writer interviewed 200 students in order to learn their views on marriage and love. In addition, research results of other scholars on college students’views of marriage and love are consulted. Attempts are made to examine college students under the objective, historical and realistic background so that the current situation of their views on marriage and love could clearly be understood. The results achieved in this paper are as follows. First, the current situation of college students’ views on marriage and love is disclosed. Based on evidence and investigation, the rarely known emotional confusion deep in their hearts is revealed. Attempts are made in the objectiveness and accuracy of data and the truth of descriptions. Secondly, in analyzing reasons of problems of students’ views on marriage and love, it is pointed out that the basic reasons lie in the deviation of students’ outlook of life and the lagging of the education on views of marriage and love. Thirdly, the analysis and studies are made on the content, methods and ways for the education of college students’ views of marriage and love. And it is emphasized that the education on views of marriage and love is first of all a kind of education on the outlook of life, and it is necessary to take college education as the main channel.Key words: college students; views on marriage and love; education on views of marriage and love